交往了1年7个月10天...
在今天结束了...
应该会吓倒很多人吧??
其实我们的问题一直都在...
来kampar后,
问题也没解决过...
记得你有说过我没找你也没什么感觉...
其实你慢慢开始习惯一个人的生活...也很开心...
听你每天都有meeting...
其实我知道kusenrufu不是拿来分手的原因...
可我觉得我们各自在不同的地方奋斗...
都很开心...
可每次一讲到我们就有莫名的烦恼伤心...
在一起并不是将的...
应该要互相扶持互相成长...
我们之间已经失去这个东西了...
所以我决定放手了...
我真的很开心也没有后悔跟你一起...
我很幸福也很开心...
谢谢你曾经在我成长过程陪我度过...^ ^
there is no should or should not's in love, there is also no must and must not in love. Love has no rules, nor does it has any limitations. Being in love does not mean you can not be together at a far and distant place. Being in love is not for the "now", but it is for the future, it is about being able to understand each other further, and being able to be there for each other when you really need some one. some one whom you are able to trust, some one whom you are able to look out for when they are down. Being in love means to be able to take care of yourself and able to care for that special some one. Being in love means that even if you do not speak, you know that that person is there for you no matter what, and vice-versa. Being in love is for you to decide that you would want to spend the rest of your life with that person. a short term saperation, as i have told you, is to test your faith to each other. your trust and your understanding.
ReplyDeleteif just because you are both alone in other states, being busy and happy striving in your lives even if you are not side by side physically, thats why you feel that being single is fine too, then i guess you are really not fit to be in a relationship. Being in Love is not to strive together for kosen rufu, but to strive together in LIFE. Do not keep putting kosen rufu in the picture and burden yourselves, it is about sharing Life. It is about how are you going to share your life when you are away. there will come to a point in time maybe during your working life that you may need to be away from your wife for work purposes, does that mean that if your wife can take care of herself that you will divorce her? Think...
Karjin, your comment is really good,you know what he is thinking :)
ReplyDeleteNickson, the tears ran down my cheeks while I read this (交往了1年7个月10天...在今天结束了...)
你们分开了?
ReplyDeleteerm....anyway...support =)
相爱容易...但是2个人在已不容易...
Good bless 4 u ^^